Originally Posted by
britchic1 
Hi,
I am new to this site... I recently exited a verbally abusive relationship with an alcoholic/drug abuser (only pot to my knowledge, nothing "horrible"). The relationship went back and forth for about a year, make up/break up, etc. and finally he seems to have moved on and doesn't want me anymore.
I feel so unneeded
I feel so unloved
The fears that I'm "not good enough" seem to again be surfacing
I feel empty without him even though it was so bad, as we talked every day.
hello britchic,
welcome to the community...like you i am new to this site but i am so happy that i found it...you will get a lot of support here and if you keep reading, you will find that you are not alone and there are others who have and are experiencing what you have right now.
just like you, my xabf just decided our relationship is done, because i decided to stop enabling, although i told him that i love him to death and i would do anything to help him get sober....he decided to go with someone who is a recovering addict, alcoholic and weed smoker and has a son who smokes weed too. just like you i felt unneeded, unloved and not good enough...
i am still trying to cope, let go and move on, its hard on me, but thanks to SR friends, they help me go through it just by sharing their stories and expressing their care and concern...
just hang in there...peace to you.