Originally Posted by
pinkdog 
My marriage counselor said "sarcasm is not humor..it's hostility". My ex would say mean things and then say "just joking'. The marriage counselor said I didn't deserve it. Thank God for that marriage counselor. She gave me the support to move on. Hugs to you.
So true. My AH always says I can't take a joke and that I'm too sensitive. Love the way it always becomes my problem, too. He now says he's too afraid to talk to me because I can't handle his sarcasm and wit so why bother to communicate with me.