of course, send him my way. Just kidding of course.
But for some reason I always think that the underlying cause of anything is most likely depression. I'm probably too optimistic. But you know what I found out that that is OK also.
In a few days, actually Aug 2 I will be one year sober.
As for addiction, I feel and I know that for me, it was that I wasn't getting what I wanted. I'm a three time winner over here.
I am an alcoholic, I married one, and my dad was an alcoholic.
Back in my days, I would have done drugs,did some, not many. Was always afraid because I wanted to have children. So I thought drinking was OK, drugs were not, how stupid was that? I needed, I wanted to forget my childhood. I could never have friends come over, so when I had children, that was the one thing that I always faught my ex on. CHILDREN WILL ALWAYS BE ALLOWED IN MY HOUSE.
So, maybe I made a difference to at least one, at least I hope so.