Sorry you hit a bump in the road Ken. I'm a firm believer in the idea that each of us has a road to travel and that we all have to find our own way through this thing. This little detour you've taken may seem like a setback but it may also be just the thing that allows you to better find your way.
For the longest time, I thought I had a big plan too. I really didn't though.
I think you're on the right track...