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Old 07-10-2012, 12:49 PM
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justhadenough
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Originally Posted by DisplacedGRITS View Post
Take a deep breath and try to not worry too much about it. It's good to be aware and prepare for events like that where we know we're going to be vulnerable but as alcoholics we're also prone to worry and seeing doom where ever alcohol is. Just because it's going to be there doesn't mean you're going to drink it. You'll be tempted but that's ok. It's part of the real world. If it gets to be a bit much, excuse yourself if possible and just drop us a quick line here. Relax but be vigilant and enjoy yourself tonight. All you have to do is not take that first drink and you sound strong enough in your sobriety to do that. You've got it!
Thanks GRITS. you are right, there are events etc that really can't be avoided.

I posted my op quickly-it was an extendeded family meal with many people here last time when I relapsed. I don't like large groups anyway and will def not be having one of those again in a long time!!

Thnks for all the responses. I am breathing deeply, sippiing soda water and soon off to bed and leave them to it.
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