Thanks for the responses
I should have said I can't get out of it as it is connected to my Husbnd's business. It is not a case of being scared of letting him down or them etc.
As I said, my husband drinks at home and that doesn't bother me. I can't now suggest he stops drinking and I don't want to anyway. I don't expect everyone else to change their lives just because I have
Anyway, things are fine, drinking soda water