The definition of detachment was well taken. I have recently learned to do this inspite of people's reservations that I am being unsympathetic and clearly have no love for this AH. It makes me feel better lnowingbthatnhe is the one with the problem and I am not longer the one carrying the problem. I have merely tossed it back in his lap. It is his disease let hi deal with it. I detached quite easily. Yes I am not an addict and never will be but those who are are not those I fell compassion for in any way their burdens are their beasts.