What does your sponsor say?
Only you can decide. Hell some of my 'amends' from my 1st 4th and 5th step took me 20 years to make. Why? well .................... some of them I could not find, some of them I procrastinated on (because they were emotional and/or physical affairs).
This is something you would do well with in discussing with your sponsor, your husband and HP as to where and when.
J M H O
Love and hugs,