Hey Jill.
It is hard to find sober friends outside AA. Are you happy just meeting new friends who may drink but hopefully aren't alcoholics?
Are there any hobbies you want to take up? Maybe a night class. Education has a wonderful way of making people into friends very quickly. Maybe an exercise class, or a book group. If you can't find anyone doing what you want maybe start your own group. There are so many lonely people out there who just need an excuse to get together with other people.
Good luck x