Thanks, yes you're right. It's amazing how quickly reading on here can soothe me when I'm fretting!
I hate confrontation and any form of anger scares me. That doesn't help.
I am very sure that coming home at midnight on a Saturday night, ensuring that my daughter gets home safely and maintaining my own health by staying sober is EXACTLY what I should be doing. She was so drunk she probably won't remember her reaction anyway. In fact she had started becoming quite aggressive towards her husband so I'm pleased to be out of there. Just hoping now that my H can remain strong as he's staying overnight.
I did just fine I think!
Thankyou all xx