" if you really do love someone so much you will fight for them and put aside everything else - including addiction"
Lara, one cannot put aside addiction. It NEVER goes away. It will NEVER go away. He will always be an addict and every day of his life will ALWAYS be focused on To Use or Not To Use. You, and everyone who decides to be in his life, will always be second to the addiction, whether he seeks Recovery or not.