The situation has taken a turn. The couple has broken up. The girl claimed the guy hit her. Her friends went by and beat him up. Needless to say, he was forced to leave (his story) with only the clothes he was wearing. I asked both him and the girl where Melissa was. The girl got an attitude with me and said she was her fiance's "new chick". I asked him about it and he denied it. Tried to tell him to have her call home or call me or someone. But this has been to no avail. She doesn't have a phone of her own, so this has been hard. I don't regret what I did, and I don't think she knows it was me. In truth, I have no idea what has happened or what transpired. But my sister and that guy are not at the house anymore. The lease was in the guys name, so they went to get some paperwork filed out to have them escorted off. My sister went with the police, but apparently the police believed the girl and not my sis. So now my sister and that guy have lost everything and are out on the street. I tried to offer help and encouragement, and at 2:30 this morning, I received some very mean and immature texts, threatening to block my number if I didn't show him some respect. My sister is jobless, homeless, without her things, and without a phone. I am severely grieved. But all I can do is wait. I have discovered that I have major control issues and I want things done my way when I want it. I am having a hard time stepping back. She is my twin sister and I'm almost empty without her. But She is in the throws of addiction. I have to wait for her to ask for help. And I can't navigate the ending. And I also can't make her my responsibility. I live 800 miles away. There is not much I can do. But I'm angry and frustrated and lonely none the less. I miss her. I miss talking to her. I miss hearing her voice. I miss being able to call her to tell her about something silly that happened during the day. How do you all get through this?