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Sentso Sorry to hear it's so hard with your friends, but just prove them wrong!
You seem motivated. Maybe in a few weeks/months it's gonna be easier. Maybe seeing one person at a time instead of a group of people (were they in a bar?) would be easier.
Last time I went to a party without drinking (I wanted to try, and also I had been drinking way too much the whole week before), I kept drinking sparkling water and saying I was taking a break. And still a few people, either joking, or seriously tempting me, offered me some beer or a glass of wine.
And I know if I tell them I quit, some will make fun of me behind my back, simply believing it's not possible.
Yes, we all hung out in a huge group. Now I just never come out anymore. So I guess they are feeling threatened ( a few of them are alcoholics too) so they focus on me instead of themselves.