I agree with Live2Run25, no explanations necessary. Saying that, it is difficult when you're constantly around drinkers. My brother-in-law is a social drinker and he just can't fathom when I say I'm cutting back or quitting altogether. He asks what's wrong with me/what's the matter?? I think to myself "I have a brother-in-law who's a pain in the ass", that's what's the matter and he's the LAST person I owe any explanation too. I say do what you have to do to get by. You may be surprised with the reactions of your friends. They might just say "cool", and leave you alone.
Keep coming back to SR for support! Even if it's just to read, not post. It's what keeps me going. I relapsed the other night after 9 days. Had a few glasses of wine - didn't get drunk or have any kind of hangover but I sure felt a lot of shame. Came here and felt a whole lot better. Good luck!!!