Welcome to SR pasddwnprblm...I'm sorry about your brother...And you...If you are looking at stopping...It's a good idea to consult with a doctor about what you want to do...Detoxing can be dangerous...If not fatal. Once I cleaned up I got involved with AA and that solved my problem...Is that something you would consider?...This is a great site for online support....Be sure and stay close here....You can learn a lot here. Glad you found us.