after being in an unhealthy (emotionally) relationship for 14 years i too started spending time for just me. i found a love in motorbike riding, and a new set of friends to go with it. that is my me time.
when I'm with my kids we go camping. we pack up the dogs and all of our gear and find a lovely spot near a creek or beach and spend anywhere form 1-7 nights living by a fire and enjoying the outdoors.