Don't look too far ahead. When i first decided to quit drinking i found that thinking about a month sober was too much for me. A year? A lifetime? Impossible. But by focusing on the here and now and living in the moment, i am able to maintain sobriety quite happily because i'm only staying sober today. I have no idea what tomorrow is going to bring and whether or not i'll drink tomorrow but every day i am sober today and that's good enough for me.