Originally Posted by
mrsbrownie 
thanks lovemenot, but what if they are not drinking and getting high anymore, how is it that she can lead him to sobriety while i cant? given that we only shared healthy things/activities.
thanks
She can't change him, only he can decide to change himself and then it's a lot of hard work. You know the truth.....
He knows you are talking to his mother and he feeding all kinds of BS to make it sting. You may want to reconsider talking her for now anyway.