Jstar - i remember when that happened to me. It totally panicked me that it wasn't working anymore. That's when i knew i had to stop somehow. I went to an AA meeting. People had been telling me for years what would happen if i didn't stop drinking. At this meeting, an old timer told me what could happen if i did stop drinking. It changed my perspective on recovery. I wanted a normal life with normal things. There are lots of way to get sober, but AA was the only one that worked for me. Other people get sober in different ways. I would recommend that you try a few meetings. x