I was so angry for 4 years that I gave myself hypertension!! That's when I knew
My madness had to stop- I can't change him just myself- so no more expectations- luckily we can still chat as long as it's not about our relationship- but I do hold in to the hope that this will pass, and I no longer see us in happy retirement! By safeguarding - new bank accounts, and make sure that me and the kids will be financially secure- that wast first boundary to him that he could not expect me to financially support him again- and on that one I will stay strong.god knows I will probably slip on a host of other things!