Outtolunch,
As far as the job, I thought it was more important to do the IOP which will be 45 minutes away, 9 to 4 was more important. Maybe I'm wrong. He wanted to go get a new job immediately but I believe just to have the funds for drugs. Believe it or not, he is not a lazy person. He always worked hard, had the current job about 18 months and worked overtime, just to spend all his money on drugs since February of this year. Should I demand he get a job which in the line of work he was doing would either be steady daylight or alternating shifts and not do the IOP? Or do the shorter IOP 9 hours a week?