I had to change a lot of my relationships in recovery (including the one with myself).
For me this was a time of turbulence, chaos and incredible growth.
I was surprised that it was ALL my relationships and not just with my qualifier.
I am working on relationships that each person can be themselves as an individual, but that together we as a unit can lead to individual growth and growth as a unit also. It is very challenging.
I first had to decide what was working for me, and what was not. It was painful, but without acknowledging it I could not move forward.