Personally, I believe addiction is a lifelong disease. I don't think anyone gets addicted because of an operation or an injury. I don't think its the pain killers, I think it is the person.
I have never been unfaithful in my marriage. I never sought comfort in the arms of another man. I don't think this is "our" problem. I think it HIS. I know I have my own issues, that need to be fixed. I am working on ME and I would never ask, expect, or rely on anyone else to help me or my husband fix either one of our problems.
My life is not all roses, unicorns and fairies but reality is such a nice place for me to be. Thank you.
I will leave it at that!!