I agree with every thing shared above. Your children are seeing so many chanes happening rather quickly and are having a hard time with everything. So they are 'lashing out' in fear, confusion, etc
I would suggest that you sit them down and explain to them that the changes they seeing are a part, and only a part, of what you are doing to get back YOU. That these changes will NOT change your interactions with them unless they want them to. That you are still you, just a healthuer, healing you. Remember, they may not remember you, before you started your first metamorphosis, that started in response to the changes that were occurring to your AH. You might also suggest that they try Alanon for themselves.
J M H O
My response to your 'changes'? YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!! Good for you!
Love and hugs,