Thanks everyone....
yesterday morning he got home at 5:30 am...after staying at the "buddy's" house all night...I found why he seem so sober...and was able to control his drinking...I was doing laundry..yeah I am still washing his clothes..cleaning our house..taking care of him...anyway his POT tool feel out of his pants...so he is smoking pot so that he does not NEED to drink..I think he is really progressing with this disease..he used to be able to "control" his drinking without the use of POt..that has really gotten worse this time...he has really seemed to progress..scary.... I know I am better of..it is just so tough being in this house with him.....13 more days...
Thanks everyone for the support.