HI, Painfully
I am so sorry that this is how things are going for you.
My RAH has not cheated, or lied...but I ,too am feeling the pain of having stood by him, helped get him sober, etc, only to have him breeze on by me. He bought a house for himself, without my input.
He says he is just living life, we are separated, not divorced. We were supposedly working on his commiment and consisitently with our son, while he and I take a break...
He now says one day he wants us to move in there, the next day that he is moving on. Lather rinse, repeat...
I feel pretty sure he will crop up aith a "friend" that he is fond of at some point here.
I feel pretty willing to let him go.