I just found this site yesterday and I know it was God sent. I only have 5 months, 6 on the 19th, but I have been a little crazy on Fri and Sat nights. It feels good to keep sharing the message to others that are on this path. It helps me to stay sober. I just left a bad relationship with the father of my children and I am going through a lot. He is still using and I am changing myself for the better. I can already see that it will be easier on me to not have him in the same house that I live in. I find when I need to do some action, I just have to do it! I can't lolly-gaggle around. It has been a struggle, but quitting drinking was a bigger one. My problems seem like a lot, but I have implemented a God Box to take care of them all. So now I see my light at the end of my tunnel.
It might be hard at first, but you can do it. All my love and prayers to you.