Welcome to SR.....I'm glad you found us.
An active addict is going to use until they decide to stop. There is nothing you can do to make him stop. If our love could cure the addicts in our lives, not one of us would be here.
Stick around. Read. Learn. Ask questions. Be prepared for some truths that may be hard to swallow. Pick up some good books. Consider going to Nar-Anon or Al-Anon meetings or any other meeting that may be in your area to support the friends and family of alcoholics/addicts.
You are not alone.
gentle hugs
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