Petunia and StandingStrong as always (((Hugs))) you know how to make someone feel wonderful! I will take these words of advice from all of you-and tomorrow after work I will get the restraining order-It is amazing...I had not one phone call from him today..it is the silence game as if they know what they did the night before to you (the nasty phone call) and know what you are planning to do to take care of yourself. But I'm not going to "save" or "protect" him anymore Standing- or live my life around him, as these past two weeks I have been so amazingly happy! And thanks again Petunia..I had others tell me as well not to pay him a dime back- but I guess I feel that guilt-of well he did fix the car-but your right I owe him nothing as it was told that it was a gift-and it is just his way to keep me or rather TRY to keep sucked in! Not happening! (((Hugs))) everyone thank you!