EOL, I know how your feeling even though I asked hubby to move and he did so without any problems when Ido see those glimpses I have to remember that is all they are. I am not ready for a divorce yet I feel I need too be stronger mentally first.
When I had him leave this time (2nd time) I got my house and car key back he never would give them before he had come home from an all nighter and was ready to crash he laid on the couch and I asked for them he said I will give them to you when I wake up I would not settle for that and since he needed sleep he handed them to me then soon passed out.
I still had my locks changed the next day as he could have had a key made and me not know it he left two dressers here (always would leave something ) I let our daughter pick them up too she needed them then texted and told him.
We will be OK and one day much better then OK. One day at a time.