[QUOTE=lonlion]Skyleh; He may be controlling his drinking for the OW now, but wait till the relationship gets a little longer. Once he has more time in this, his true colours will show.
Just think, then she will be the one in your shoes now. I know its not much comfort for you now, but you do deserve better, and whatever you do don't blame yourself!
Take care of yourself, you're worth it.[/QUOTE
I totally agree with this-Sky when I first met my A he controlled his drinking and I was clueless to just how bad it really was. Most A's are good at that! Good at the blame game too!- I'm not one to give advice right now as I'm going through issues as I left him 2 weeks almost ago. Please take care of yourself! (((Hugs)))