Welcome to SR!
I'm sorry your experience with AA was not positive. AA is a spiritual program of recovery and does not have issues with any religion. I know this, so do many people I know who are still sober today because of the 12 steps of AA (it's not the meetings, it's working the steps that is the solution).
I hope you can find something that works for you. Have you read Rational Recovery, Women for Sobriety, or any other program of recovery? Something will help you out!
Glad you are here!