Hi I just started on this site. I remember well the rude awakening when you realize you have a problem with the drink. It is hard to digest. Acceptance is key. Best to you. I'm not drinking either. I'll hang out with you. I think I have to have more posts to be eligible in the chatrooms? I tried it and it seems noone could see what I wrote? I'll figure it out sooner or later. This is a cool website. I want to learn it so I can tell my friend who is struggling today. thanks.