Now that my AH is not drinking (no program, just not drinking), I'm finding that he's not that great to be around even when he's sober. I'm told that he exhibits signs of being a "dry drunk". My feelings for him are also changing. Sometimes I think life would be impossible without him, and other times I think life would be blissful contentment without him. It's a very confusing state of mind to be in. All we can do is take care of ourselves and concentrate on our own health, happiness, and peace of mind. And let others do the same.