Originally Posted by
princesssarrah 
He also randomly texted me and said I can't wait to be clea completely clean and be like to everyone this girl right here stood by myside thru everything... and that wud be cool you know...
That's quite a load of manipulative garbage he's feeding you.
Why are you OK with having someone into "the party life" and/or in active addiction living under the same roof as your child?
We allow ourselves to be victims. A simple boundary, " I do not do relationships with people into " the party life" and/or active addiction or early recovery" protects you and your child from further victimization. You have no control over other people and your BF is free to do as he pleases, somewhere else. Your primary job is to protect the child who is learning from you how to cope with life and allow others to treat her.