he said he wants my help
You can only help yourself NOT him
IMO, those are the words he thinks you wanna hear words of manipulation
Are you attending any meetings for your self? Al-anon, Nar-anon, families anonymous
you can attend meetings and figure out what you wanna do or you can (your words) ('m tied of being a victum of drug abuse ) stay stuck there.
you have options
best of luck while you figure out where you want your life to go it is at least for me frustrating because I keep being on yo yo on my own life.