Thank you all,
I just want to say that things are much better, we have both been going to counseling and we have been talking more.
We have talked a lot about how and what pushed her to that point and how we can create excitement between us, we have made a consious effort to be more affectionate with each other, even something as small as making sure we hold hands when we go out makes a big difference.
I made an appointment for a full day at a local spa and she got to relax and be spoiled, that seemed to really have helped her rest and recharge.