Congratulations on three weeks! I know exactly how you feel. I was really confused during the first month of sobriety. And, you are 100% right, nobody gives a **** whether you drink or not. I felt like I needed a gold star when I first quit and nobody noticed. Now, my gold star is the complete journey,... happy and sad, confused and clear,... just knowing I am control of my life from now on is enough for me!