A big
Congrats on your sober time!
Originally Posted by
DrivenHeart85 
I learned the importance in considering other people's opinions but never, ever putting them before my own because I know myself more than anyone else does, I am the one that will have to put up with the consequences of my own actions, it is my life and beyond consequence and coincidence, I am the only driver of my life.
Very wise words, thank you, I needed to read that tonight.
The opinions and anecdotal evidence others offer is good to consider. I dose not replace the hard won self-discovery that it takes for people like myself that know recovery is an inside job.