Thanks all for taking the time to respond.
Yes, I do go to alanon. NO, I am not a saint, LOL. I do not /have not taken all that sitting down, so to speak. BUt, I have tried to be mainly supportive and make clear I can help him if he is helping himself, and if it is available to me and my energy level.
This new phase was exhausting me, and I need that energy for myself and our son.
So, yes. Dry drunk was my thought. And perhaps some mental issues.
Sigh. I have been at this for a long time. Its tough when the meetings help him, but he doesnt keep it up.
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
bless you