I wish I could give advice that could help. I am too new for that. The only thing I can tell you is that by posting, it has helped me deal with things a little better, so keep posting! I'm sure others with more experience will give you good advice.I can tell you I really feel for you and what you must be going through. I hope for the best for you, your Daughter, and Family. Keep posting and sharing, it can only help.