Healthyfood~you are recently sober, if I remember right? Is it truly a good idea to even see him right now in the first place? I have about 14 months & I still make sure that I am making good choices for myself that support sobriety. It sounds like he's not much of a drinker but maybe still a bit of a trigger for you? Don't know! If you do go and he asks about the booze, I'd just say no thanks, taking a break. Let your actions speak. Best wishes. Relationship stuff is tough.