Thanks - he woke up and acted as if nothing happened. I said my piece. He then began crying saying he was going to miss me and that's why he'd drunk. When he went to hug me, and clearly I didn't want to hug him, he said i'd never wanted him to get close to me during our relationship??? You said it - not sane individual.
Anyway, I've told him to sort his stuff out and not to drink on my time (fully appreciate he will do what he wants) and I'm now off to go see my friend with swollen eyes. Yay!
I am going to go and have a good time. He will be sober on Sunday as he has to go to work on Monday and funnily enough work warrants his respect and consideration, but sadly not me.