Thanks for your response. It's definitely on the table as an option if this doesn't work or even if it does work and he continues to be this angry and resentful. Probably 15 minutes after I wrote this, his tune changed completely, became super lovey, and started telling me that the real reason he was getting clean was so I wouldn't leave him. His moods are all over the place within minutes. Please keep in mind that he has stopped being able to play me throughout this and im able to remain pretty flat with my responses and just tell him that he needs to be clean before we can figure anything out or else I'm leaving. He knows I'm serious this time and have already put everything in place to walk away. But, his moodiness, and anger, then attachment, lack of willingness to participate in meetings or therapy (or so he says as of now)... Is this something that I can continue to expect once hes clean or are these just addictive behaviors? Just wondering if anyone has any insight. Thanks.