Oh my god your husband sounds EXACTLY like mine. Not an alcoholic but just likes to get out of his face and doesn't seem to know his limit.
I am at the end of my tether with it actually because at 43 years of age I would have thought he'd have grown up by now.
I am generally absolutely sick of it now and it doesn't happen once a month here it's more like once every few months but even so it is driving me crazy. The last incident being last Saturday when I was with him and he was sooooo damn embarrasing. MEN!