Also, what really bugs me is that he gives our son no credit for what he's gone through in the past few months. He lost both his grandfathers and had to travel cross country for both funerals which can be quite draining even for adults. And, then he's got his dad going to jail soon. I don't know, I guess that's not enough to justify being emotional to my AH. He has absolutely NO empathy or compassion right now. It's just all about him.
Thank you, LaTeeDa, for sharing. You're right, it's about failure for me too. And, about letting go of the dream that someday things could be better. Maybe they could be, but right now REALITY BITES.