Thanks, Dee. That is how I feel too. His drinking is his business, as long as it doesn't interfere with my life of the kids. While I don't think it is a good idea for him to drink because of his past as an addict, I am not taking his inventory. I just don't think a few beers a week is a big deal for him. If it gets out of control... well... I'll know what to do, I guess.
My recovery is about me. While it impacts my family and friends, I have to want it for me. I don't think everyone is the same or has the same needs.
Well, I guess I will go to meetings and work my program.