Well I had to go pick him up from work (we're down to one car again) and he explained that he's not really pursuing a relationship with that girl he was texting. It's not how it looks. He has no problem not communicating with her. And now he sees that he blames me for everything too. Huh.
You are leaving him. It is sooooo page one in the aaddict playbook to turn that scenario around, to make you feel like the abandoned one, because You didnt measure up.
I can't tell if this is true right now, but am going to hold on to it.