I guess I would just like to hear from some of you all, reasons why you went after full custody, reasons why it is so very important to go after full custody.
As each day passses, his drinking increases, his drinking and driving increases... and I know (I really know deep down) that I should not let my children go with him when the divorce is all said and done. Even my 16 year old stepson had a great talk with me and stated "dad needs help", "watch such and such son cause things dad said and did have really hurt me over the years" This talk with my stepson is what is making highly consider going after full custody. and then there is the but....
Looking for supportive advice, stories etc.. to help me get over the but...cause I don't think I could live with myself when/if the children got hurt cause I couldn't/didn't stand up for them, thats my job.
Why is this decision almost harder to make then the decison to divorce?
