OH WOW.....are we living the same life...just when I think "ok things are good" all H___ breaks loose! I want to get off the roller coaster but I don't know how....the manipulation hurts me when I try to take care of just me!! becasue he makes me feel like crap because I refuse to "take care of him " (ie go to the liquor store, hang out at the bar etc.) then becasue I do something for myself I am neglecting him ...and the biggest is my money is OUR money but his is his!!??? I want a partner not another child!!! (sorry had to vent)